November marked the
75th anniversary of Kristallnacht. I learned about the vicious November Pogrom
as a child growing up in Skokie, but my grandma and grandpa experienced
first-hand the anxiety, humiliation, and persecution inflicted upon the Jews of
Germany and Austria during those horrific times. The sorrow and significance of
their stories has been sealed in my conscience.
In hope of gaining a
deeper understanding of their experiences, I took a trip with my wife, Stefanie,
who works at JUF/JF, to Berlin and Vienna, the respective homes of my grandpa
and grandma. For years I had wanted to travel there and see for myself-as best I
could-what these places were like for them. So we set aside some cash and booked
the trip, planning to visit as many family landmarks as possible. Once we got
there, we managed to visit the very buildings where my grandma and grandpa were
born and lived. The journey connected us to their stories of survival.
'A slow boat to China'
My grandpa, Fred, was born in
the borough of Tegel in Berlin. As the war began, he worked as a tailor in one
of Berlin's thriving department stores. Before Kristallnacht, a non-Jewish
childhood friend in the Berlin police department tipped him off that he was on a
list of Jews to be arrested and deported. Grandpa knew he had to leave quickly,
but where would he go? Countries all over the world were closing their borders.
His only available escape route led to Shanghai, China, where luckily no
passport or visa was required.
He managed to get a ticket, but the slow
boat to China would not embark for weeks. On Kristallnacht, he watched from an
alley as Nazis searched for him in his apartment. He spent the ensuing nights
sleeping alone outdoors, hiding wherever he could-even in the Berlin Zoo.
Finally, at the age of 31, almost the exact same age that I am today, my grandpa
left the only home he ever knew for the very foreign-and dangerous-Jewish Ghetto
It was in Shanghai where my grandparents would meet and
My grandma, Adele, grew up in a Viennese family. Her
father, Salomon, was a highly decorated veteran of the First World War, having
fought as a cavalry officer on the Eastern front.
When I was a kid, my
grandma beamed with pride when she talked about her father. He built his own
business crafting specialty liqueurs. The family owned an apartment building,
which still stands to this day. Salomon was a strict parent-true to his military
background. But he was also a strong, spirited man and loving father who
encouraged his children to study music and chaperoned my grandma's school field
Life changed after the Anschluss. On Kristallnacht, Salomon was
arrested and severely beaten by Nazi-collaborating authorities. Fortunately, he
always kept his veteran's papers in his wallet, and his captors released him
only out of "respect" for his gallant service to his country. He was forever
broken and would never be the same. The very next day he obtained the family's
tickets to Shanghai, and they left with the few belongings they could carry.
Members of my grandma's extended family who stayed behind were deported to
Theresienstadt and, like so many others, were never heard from again.
Axis of remembrance
Despite these struggles, for the
rest of their lives Berlin and Vienna would always be "home" to my grandparents.
Ironically, for my grandpa, anything made in Germany was of the highest and best
quality, of course. For my grandma, Vienna was a joyful town, filled with
beautiful music, good food, and opportunity. And when I finally took in these
cities for myself, I understood what all the fuss was about-even though so much
One of the most poignant experiences of the trip was the time
we spent at the Jewish Museum in Berlin. The tour starts with underground
hallways which lead to the main museum building. The floors of the hallways are
uneven and present the visitor with three pathways called "Axes." First is the
"Axis of Continuity," which is intended to be a connection of Germany's tortured
past with its present.
Continuing on, the visitor is presented with a
proverbial fork in the road. If you turn one way, you are led to the "Axis of
Exile," which tells the harrowing stories of escape and survival of
German-Jewish families and individuals just like my grandpa. For me, this part
of the museum harkened stories of the treacherous living conditions and trying
times that awaited my grandparents in the Shanghai Ghetto.
When you turn
the other way, you pass through the "Axis of the Holocaust," which leads to a
single, unfurnished room with an opening in the ceiling to the outside and no
heat or air-conditioning. It is a void.
Like so many Jewish children and
grandchildren of Holocaust survivors, I am the product of a twist of fate, turn
of luck, Providence, Divine intervention-whatever you want to call it. What if
my grandpa's childhood friend had grown up to be a Nazi? What if Salomon was not
carrying his veteran's papers that day? What if the Shanghai port was closed to
Jews? Exploring the labyrinth of the museum, reading the stories of survival on
one hand and murder on the other, I got chills. For my grandparents, a turn to
the left, or a turn to the right, could have easily led to the Axis of the
Holocaust-a dead end.
But their survival was not just about luck. I am
awestruck by their emotional and physical toughness during those years.
After scraping by in the Shanghai Ghetto for just shy of ten years, my
grandparents were finally allowed to emigrate to the United States-another
different and strange place-where they managed to start over and raise a family
of their own in Chicago.
As I made my way through the Jewish Museum in
Berlin with Stefanie, I asked myself, would I have the strength to survive the
way my grandparents did? The courage to uproot myself and my family? Finding
myself isolated, in such strange and dangerous places, would I have the grit to
start over? Would I have the determination to rebuild from scratch-at this very
stage of my life?
Fortunately, for me and my generation, there is no Axis
of the Holocaust or Axis of Exile. Instead, I choose to create for myself an
Axis of Remembrance, to commit myself to never forget the loss and the pain and
suffering that my grandma and grandpa-and so many others like them-endured only
because they were Jews.
It has been years since my grandma and grandpa
passed away, but walking the streets they walked, listening to the music they
loved, and eating the food they enjoyed helped me understand their experiences
just a little bit better. Their lives will always be an inspiration and source
of strength for me - as long as I tread the path of the Axis
Michael Bregman is an attorney in Chicago.