It was so disappointing
when Good Deeds Day was cancelled at the end of March. Right before the
pandemic hit, myself along with several other members of Congregation Etz Chaim
in Lombard were set to deliver Maot Chitim Passover meals to the Krasnow
Residence in Skokie (which we have done twice a year for many years), then
(following brunch) participate in the GDD Open House at Anshe Emet in Chicago,
and finally cooking for, serving dinner to and eating with our DuPage PADS
guests who shelter overnight at Etz Chaim every Sunday evenings. We had dubbed
the effort involving a 68-mile minibus ride the “March Madness Mitzvah
Marathon.”
Instead we turned
our attention to helping stock our local food pantries (including the one down
the street at Christ the King Church) and providing supplies to DuPage PADS
(whose clients benefited from a major fundraiser that organization ran during
the early weeks of the pandemic, paying for food and overnight stays in local
hotels in lieu of unsafe stays at local houses of worship). Some of us ran Facebook
fundraisers for various charitable organizations providing emergency relief to
those in need. Many of us have made regular calls to family and friends we know
were isolated during this trying time.
Despite the
heartache caused by the coronavirus, there have been several silver linings,
including (through the miracle of virtual conferencing apps) gatherings of
groups that might otherwise never have connected. My favorite example was the
“Fitzer Family Zoom Reunion”, in which on a Sunday in early May, more than 30
members of my father’s mother’s family spent the better part of two hours
catching up and, in many cases, seeing and speaking to each other for the first
time.
The participants
represented three branches of David and Rosa Katz Fitzer, my great-great-great
grandparents who were born in the 1830s in Stanislau (then part of Galicia,
Austria but subsequently part of Poland and Ukraine) and included the children,
grandchildren, great grandchildren and even a couple of great-great
grandchildren of all five siblings of the generation represented by my Grandma
Bella (may her memory be for a blessing). Family members joined from California
where it was early morning, New York, New Jersey, Maryland, Virginia, Georgia,
Florida, Texas, Illinois where it was late morning and Israel (including the
Tel Aviv/Yafo and Kibbutz Shamir in the Upper Galilee) where it was early
evening.
We were brought
together by the two primary genealogists of the family, one my close cousin who
is a retired tech exec in California and the other a more distant cousin who is
a history professor at William & Mary College in Virginia.
We each told our
story and shared how we were faring while socially distancing. We enjoyed
connecting with close family and making acquaintance with more distant family
(and have now connected through Facebook), but in the end realized we really
need an in-person reunion, tentatively planned for the fall of 2021 at Kibbutz
Shamir!
-Submitted by Joel Spenadel